Your profile = your introduction
Add your photos, city, interests, and a little about yourself. People use this to decide who they want to meet. Your birth date and email stay private.
My profilePhase 1: meet the community
Live streaming, profiles, following, private messages, Ladies’ Story Time, and Drunk Text Confessions are open now. The features below marked for the next phase unlock automatically on November 8, 2026 at midnight Eastern: All Night Flight, Game Night, events, Tonight’s Move, more group rooms, and wristbands and rewards. You can read how they work now.
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Here’s how it works.
WHO UP helps adults find people to chat, hang out, game, and make plans with. Start with these three steps.
1Make your profileShow people who you are.
2Find your peopleExplore, join a room, or watch a live.
3Make a connectionSend a like or start a conversation.
What each part does
I’M UP = I’m around right now
Turn this on when you want to connect. Your UP status lasts 30 minutes. Turn it off whenever you want. It does not mean you have to reply to anyone.
See who’s upExplore = find your people
Look through profiles. Tap the heart if you’re interested, X to pass, or Follow to keep up with someone. If you both like each other, you match and can chat.
Explore peopleMessages = private conversations
A match opens a chat. You can also send a message request. You get one introduction while you wait; the other person chooses whether to accept. Nobody owes anyone a reply.
Open messagesVideo stories = here for 6 hours
Ladies’ Story Time is for ladies to vent. Drunk Text Confessions is for men and women to share their stories. Open either room, choose a video under 20 MB, add a caption, and post. Your name is shown. Videos disappear after 6 hours. You can delete your own sooner. Other people may still record what they see.
Find the story roomsRooms = group hangouts
Join a room to talk with several people at once. Pick a topic you like. Some rooms are open to members, some need a wristband, and some need an invitation.
Find a roomTonight’s Move = what’s the plan?
Post what you want to do, like grab food, game, or go out. Other members can see your plan and show interest. Agree on the details before meeting.
See tonight’s movesGo Live = let people watch
Start a stream or watch someone else. A viewer can ask to join the live, but the host decides who gets on camera. Check your camera and microphone before starting.
Find live streamsAll Night Flight = the overnight hangout
This is WHO UP’s late-night social space—not an airline ticket. Find conversations, streams, and scheduled Flight events. Follow an event’s participation rules to earn its points.
Explore All Night FlightGame Night = play along
Find polls, challenges, and gaming conversations. A poll is a question you can vote on. A challenge tells you what to do and whether points are available. Some rewards need staff approval.
Explore Game NightWristbands = digital access passes
A wristband is a pass on your account. It opens the rooms or events listed for that pass. Viewer VIP and Streamer VIP are different passes. Check the type and expiration time. VIP is not a safety badge.
See my wristbandsEvents & notifications = stay in the loop
Events tell you what is happening and when. RSVP means you plan to attend. Tap the bell to see message requests, invitations, and other updates. A reminder inside WHO UP is not a text message.
Find eventsNight Points are your reward score.
Earn points by taking part in WHO UP. Save them, then trade them for available rewards. They are not cash, and you cannot withdraw them.
How to earn them
- Complete your profile: +50Add a photo, bio, and at least one interest.
- Eligible friend joins: +100They must join through your personal WHO UP? Pass link. Just sharing it does not earn points.
- Get your profile approved for verification: +100Staff must approve it first.
- Take part in events or challengesFollow the rules shown for that activity. An RSVP alone does not earn attendance points.
- Approved completed stream: +50Starting a stream alone is not enough; staff approval is required.
What you can use them for
- 500 points → 24 hours of Viewer VIP
- 1500 points → 72 hours of Viewer VIP
- 4000 points → 30 days of Viewer VIP
Open Wristbands & rewards and choose a reward you can afford. Its points are taken from your balance when you redeem it.
Example: If you have 600 points and spend 500, you have 100 left.
See my points & rewardsRewards can change or be paused. Check the activity and rewards screens for availability. Payment checkout is currently disabled.
Your WHO UP? Pass = your personal invite.
Open your profile and tap WHO UP? Pass · Invite Someone. You get a card and link with your name and photo. Send the link to a friend who is 18 or older.
They join through that link → their eligible new profile earns you 100 Night Points. You can check your invite results on your Pass screen. Referral credit is limited to 20 rewards in a 24-hour period.
Save the card for Stories, and include your invite link so people can join. The sharing apps you see depend on your phone.
Go to my profileYou control your experience.
Block someone to stop contact. Report a profile or message when something is wrong. Meet in public, arrange your own ride, and tell someone you trust about your plans.
Only your optional city is used for nearby discovery—not your exact location. A safety check-in is an in-app reminder; it does not automatically contact anyone or call for help.
Open Safety Center